Still reading Black and this passage seemed apt for the day before Valentines.

Tanis: You find her beautiful, yes?
Tom: Yes
Tanis: She must know this if you are to win her.

Tom: And how does Elyon love?
Tanis: Excellent question!
          He chooses
          He pursues
          He rescues
          He woos
          He protects
          He lavishes!
          This you must do to win her heart.